Planning to tie the knot? Congratulations!
But before you rush out and spend two months’ pay on a diamond, consider stepping beyond that little black box.
Sure, diamonds are gorgeous and many folks covet them — but if your partner prefers to buck tradition or is a true saver, they might appreciate something a bit different.
Not only are non-diamond engagement choices distinctive, they’re frequently easier on the wallet — leaving you extra cash for the wedding, paying down loans or an unforgettable honeymoon.
That said, if you want a wholehearted “yes,” present more than the question alone.
Below are some inventive (and budget-friendly!) options:
Lower-Cost Options Instead of Diamond Engagement Rings
Women (though not men) have worn wedding rings since ancient Egypt; the circle represents eternity.
However, diamond engagement rings became popular largely because of an advertising push — by none other than the diamond industry.
If you and your intended want rings but aren’t keen on diamonds, consider these alternatives:
1. Make Your Own
What could be more heartfelt than literally crafting your pledge with your own hands? DIY wedding bands have surged in popularity lately.
A Wedding Ring Experience operates 11 U.S. locations and three in Europe.
You’ll plan and handcraft your ring under the guidance of an expert jeweler; packages run from $995 to $2,798 depending on metal choice.
“Couples are only limited by their own imaginations,” co-owner John Rose said via email.
If there isn’t a location near you, many local jewelers offer similar workshops. Search online for “make your own wedding rings” plus your city.
2. Use a Family Heirloom
Many people would be honored to receive a ring that’s been cherished by family for generations.
Ask parents, grandparents and relatives if they have jewelry they’d be willing to part with to celebrate your commitment.
If the piece needs updating or resizing, a jeweler can restore it. You can also repurpose stones from a necklace or earrings into a ring.
If you lack a local trusted jeweler, check out Sequel, which focuses on converting old stones into new creations.
3. Pick a Vintage Ring
If your partner adores antiques and retro style, a vintage ring might be perfect.
Search pawn shops and flea markets, or browse eBay, Etsy, Trumpet & Horn, The One I Love, Erstwhile Jewelry, Brilliant Earth, Doyle & Doyle or Erica Weiner.
4. Choose Alternative Gemstones
Diamonds aren’t the only beautiful stones out there.
There are over 200 gemstones, many as striking as diamonds — and many cost much less.
Check family collections or consult a local jeweler, or explore specialty retailers like Gemvara for a broad assortment of stunning non-diamond rings.
Also consider exploring moissanite engagement rings if you want the brilliance of a diamond-like look for less.
5. Get Ring Tattoos
What’s one ring you can’t remove or return? One done in ink.
As tattoos have become more common among millennials, ring tattoos have grown in popularity — especially for people with manual jobs (construction workers, fishermen, etc.).
Looking for ideas? Here are 40.
6. Engrave a Simple Band
If your partner prefers something low-key, they may like a plain wedding band — without any sparkle.
Make it personal by engraving the interior with a meaningful message just for the two of you.
Find straightforward bands at your neighborhood jeweler or on Etsy. Purchase matching pairs to coordinate rings.
Creative Alternatives to Traditional Engagement Rings
If you want to stray from tradition entirely, skip the ring and propose with a present, experience or investment your partner will treasure.
7. Book a Pre-Wedding Trip
Adventurous partners will likely be thrilled to receive plane tickets to their dream spot.
Plan the getaway, then present a small token (postcard, snow globe, guidebook, etc.) that represents the destination when you pop the question.
Friendly tip: Don’t wait until the end of the trip to propose. If you want to pop the question on location, do it on the first day or evening. That way you can enjoy your engagement and getaway without stress.
8. Adopt a Pet
I’ve had several friends joking that they’d prefer “engagement puppies” over rings. Maybe it’s true for some …
A new animal companion can be an adorable way to start a family together.
If possible, adopt rather than buy; look for adoptable cuties on sites like Petfinder.
9. Commission Custom Art
Is your partner an art lover? Commission a one-of-a-kind piece that symbolizes your relationship and future together.
We found lovely options on Etsy, such as a watercolor portrait, a custom illustration, or a hand-drawn love map.
10. Put a Down Payment on a Home
Depending on your location and budget, a down payment on a house might cost about the same as a diamond ring.
Of all the choices, this is likely the most sensible financially.
Besides, what could be more meaningful than investing in your first home together?
11. Buy a Timeshare
Not ready to settle down but want an investment you’ll use for years? Consider a timeshare.
Shared vacation properties often cost about $16,000 and give you a great reason to take annual honeymoons.
As you can see, diamonds aren’t the sole way to show love and commitment. Don’t be afraid to propose in a manner that’s uniquely (and beautifully) yours!
Your Turn: Do you prefer diamond engagement rings or would you opt for an alternative?
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Emma Carter, a lifestyle writer for Savinly, loves finding budget-friendly adventures. Say hello on Twitter @emma_carter.
